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Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Military Moms Breastfeeding in Uniform Stir Controversy

At a time when breastfeeding in public is already controversial, pictures of two military moms doing so while wearing their uniforms is sparking outrage.

The photo is part of a local breastfeeding awareness campaign by Mom2Mom of Fairchild Air Force Base, a support group launched in January by Crystal Scott, a military spouse and mother of three. Among the intimate close-ups of smiling young mothers cuddling their adorable babies, the images of the two airmen stand out.  "People are comparing breastfeeding in uniform to urinating and defecating in uniform. They're comparing it to the woman who posed in "Playboy" in uniform [in 2007]" Scott told Yahoo! Shine in an interview. "We never expected it to be like this."

"I'm an X-ray tech and I breastfeed in my uniform all the time," Scott says. "Granted they're scrubs. But people do it all the time in their uniforms. If you have a hungry baby, why would you take the time to change completely?" Terran Echegoyen-McCabe, a member of the Air National Guard who was photographed in uniform nursing her 10-month-old twin daughters, says that she's surprised by the reaction to the photos.

"I have breastfed in our lobby, in my car, in the park ... and I pump, usually in the locker room," she told the "Today" show, adding that she usually nurses her babies while on her lunch break during drill weekends. "I'm proud to be wearing a uniform while breast-feeding. I'm proud of the photo and I hope it encourages other women to know they can breastfeed whether they're active duty, guard or civilian."

All of the women in the photos volunteered to appear in the awareness campaign, and Echegoyen-McCabe is featured -- wearing civilian clothing -- in a few of the other candid shots. None of the photos are posed; the women are simply feeding their babies the way they usually do. But even though some of the other photographs are just as revealing, only the ones of Echegoyen-McCabe and her friend Christina Luna in uniform have been criticized.

"The Air Force has never endorsed these photos," the photographer, Brynja Sigurdardottir points out on her website, where she posted several other photos from the Mom2Mom campaign. "These women just happen to be in the Air Force, in their uniform, breastfeeding their babies."

When it comes to talking about breastfeeding in public, comparing it to other bodily functions -- and even sex -- is common, in spite of the fact that breastfeeding is legal and protected while defecating or having sex in public is not. But the fact that two of the moms are shown breastfeeding in public while wearing military uniforms makes the entire controversy more complicated. The Army, for example, didn't even come up with a combat uniform for women until 2010, so accepting the idea of a uniformed soldier breastfeeding a baby may be especially jarring. And the uniforms themselves come with their own sets of rules. According to Military Spouse Central, public displays of affection -- even something as innocuous as holding hands -- are not allowed while wearing a military uniform. Also forbidden while in uniform: eating, drinking, or talking on a cell phone while walking, carrying an umbrella that's not black, and (in some cases) smoking or even chewing gum. While there is no policy that addresses breastfeeding in uniform, Air Force spokesperson Captain Rose Richeson told MSNBC: "Airmen should be mindful of their dress and appearance and present a professional image at all times while in uniform." Military moms who are still breastfeeding are encouraged to pump and bottle-feed their babies while they're in uniform.

Scott suggests that the issue might have less to do with the uniform and more to do with our own internal conflicts. "I think a lot of people think that you can't be a mom and be a soldier," she says. "This is not something that's out of norm for them. They breastfeed in uniform all the time -- it's just not something that's usually captured on film."


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Monday, May 21, 2012

'Bachelorette' Emily Maynard Unimpressed With Suitors' Weird Entrances

The men really pulled out some bizarre entry stunts to get noticed by "The Bachelorette" Emily Maynard on last week's season premiere.
There was a guy who showed up with a glass slipper, a guy dressed up like an elderly person and even one guy who showed up with an egg. On "GMA" (weekdays, 7 a.m. ET on ABC) Monday morning, Lara Spencer asked Emily what she thought of the strange entrances. "What were you thinking when these guys were coming out? ... These are my selections?"
"Umm ...kind of, to be honest," Emily replied. "Those guys that I normally would have usually said, 'No way,' I was forced to really get to know them. I was surprised by them.”
"The Bachelorette" wasn’t the only one wondering about the selection of guys for this season. Last week, Kelly Ripa told "Bachelor" and "Bachelorette" host Chris Harrison that she thought he might be a better prospect than all the guys on the show. Harrison wasn't so sure.“If I’m the star of the show, we’re in big trouble!" Harrison quipped.
"First of all ... have you seen the latest installment of ‘The Bachelorette?’" Ripa shot back.
What if "Bachelorette" Emily Agrees? Yeah, that probably won’t happen.
Spencer also asked her if there would be a happy ending this season, but all Emily would say was, “I was happy when the show started and I’m happy now.”
"The Bachelorette" airs on Monday nights at 9 p.m. ET on ABC.



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Erin Andrews Reportedly Dating Chace Crawford: Why She Should Embrace the Cougar

ESPN reporter (and national treasure) Erin Andrews as old—or even older—until today. She's only 34 years old, so it doesn't have anything to do with her actual age. I've always known she is about four years older than me, so it's not like she's actually any older than I originally thought.
It's just that when you take a premature step over to Cougar Town, it can age you considerably. And that's just what Andrews has done by reportedly hooking up with 26-year-old Gossip Girl actor Chace Crawford. Not only is Crawford eight years her junior, he's also got a baby face and wouldn't look entirely out of place at a high school party.

Us Weekly reports that the two have been spotted out on the town together and are still "getting to know each other." It's not clear when Andrews first met Crawford, who happens to be the brother-in-law of Dallas Cowboys quarterback Tony Romo. The couple was photographed together at the 2012 Super Bowl in Indianapolis.

Andrews was rumored to be dating Cougar Town actor Josh Hopkins in summer 2011, but now Andrews has apparently made the jump to actual cougar to kick off summer 2012. Given, all of this is according to the unsubstantiated gossip of the supermarket tabloids. But if the rumor is true, and that's a very big 'if', is this whole cougar thing good or bad for her football Barbie image?

Personally, I think it's a good thing. I write about the lovely Ms. Andrews on the regular and, despite people still voraciously consuming gossip about her, I've been noticing a certain level of Erin Andrews fatigue. Amongst readers and commentators as well as the real world human beings in my life. Which is why I think a drastic change could be beneficial for her career long-term.

I'm not saying that her career is any jeopardy at all at the moment—she is still as stunning as she's ever been. But her time at the top as the most lusted after sports reporter on the planet is likely coming to an end. Every time ESPN hires some 21-year-old former cheerleader on the off chance that she could be "the next Erin Andrews," the real Erin Andrews diminishes a bit in influence.

But that's only because she's playing the part of the perky blond Barbie with a brain and that's a young girl's game! The seductive temptress who can rip out a man's heart with a sigh and an eye roll—that's a lot tougher for the young girls to pull off. And it's a lot more powerful. Right now, Andrews is walking the line between the two, but is starting to veer towards the latter.

And not a moment too soon. I've loved Erin Andrews for years, but like a lot of people, I've grown tired of her sorority girl style. As those idiots on Bravo say, "she's a grown ass woman," and I think it's time for a new direction. I never even considered the cougar thing an option for her until today—but I'm definitely digging the idea.

Erin Andrews: From sorority Barbie to seductive Cougar. I'm in, are you?

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